loving for who they are

I was pretty upset and annoyed by something which happened this morning.

It started when I was chatting with someone yesterday, and it just comes to my mind that some people, they are kinda single minded. In their world, everyone should think like them, or share their values. I can just quote an example of people attending wedding dinner as a guest, and advocating the bads of eating shark fins at the host wedding dinner. I just reckon that diets are a lifestyle choice, and we do not have to enforce our choice onto anyone, certainly not at the wedding dinner of your friends. Similarly, me opting to go vegetarian on certain days and abstain from beef due to my religion, does not mean that i am more holy or religions or "right" than someone who is of the same religion as me and does not have these diets constraints. The world is full of people, each and everyone of us are unique, and it is time for us to embrace those around us for who they are, accepting their choices they have made in life. I find it annoying that people like to judge on people whom they supposedly love, because of some differences.

another point which i wanted to make is accepting the differences. Like many of my friends have known, BoBo is not the cutest cat nor is he the obedient cat ever. Many of my friends who have pets and animals will know that, as their "owner" or "friends", we always stand by them. No matter how naughty they can be, we still love them deeply.

Many people have told me that BoBo is a very naughty cat. BoBo bites, BoBo scratches, and he is spoilt, picky about food, and even fight with me over my pillow when i sleep. He sheds fur wherever he goes. But no matter how naughty he is, or how dirty he may be, he is always welcome to sleep with me, in my blanket and i will always hug him everyday. That is loving the living beings for who they are, accepting that they may never be the best, or who we want them to be. To me, that is the greatest love, loving those around you for who they are, just like how my parents never give up on me, and love me for who i am, during my darkest hours in my life.