I got this from one of the blog which i have read, and i can concur with it.

Love is not…
· Just wanting the same thing. Taking the same route there is equally important, if not more.
· Giving in blindly. Losing yourself will definitely take a toll on your relationship.
· Holding on to what’s not yours.
· Forever. Accept that.
· Making empty promises to pacify your loved ones. Taking small conscientious steps to improve is more admirable.
· Divisible. You have to multiply it.
· Me! Me! Me! It’s us.
· Assuming you know everything. It’s about learning.
· Turning a deaf ear. You have to listen. Hard.
· Keeping quiet either. Communication is key.